Advent ships are mostly mutually supportive, so it is ideal to have a good mix of ships (example, Disciple uses Steal Antimatter, then Transfer Antimatter to a support cruiser or a cap ship, then that ship has more antimatter to use abilities).
Planet bombing frigs are generally not worth it at all, since their combat potential is next to worthless (except for strike craft/ship bait) and they take 14 fleet supply points... EACH. In contrast, a heavy cruiser takes 10 fleet points, 12 if you're Vasari.
Unless, of course, you're trying to get your "Fear of Icebergs" achievement... then those frigs are required.
Ideally, you want to be #1 in military ranking compared to other players, particularly Fleet size. However, you don't want to overexpand and collapse your economy in order to get a higher fleet cap.