Welcome to our community, Archangel. Are you guys playing over Hamachi virtual-private-LAN or are you playing it over Ironclad Online? Do you guys have Entrenchment? If some of your members are heavily experienced or skilled, then they should consider logging onto ICO to play the 4v4 and 5v5 Entrenchment pickup games (pugs) where two captains draft-pick the teams, held during North American evenings. (What's nice about it is that people can log on and play whenever they want and not be restricted to playing at scheduled times.)
What does your clan tag look like?
Do you guys play any other games or have an IRC chat channel?