Not much of a computer wizard, what's OC? lol
I'm still planning going with that motherboard that I posted in my post...so...I dunno, lol.
OC = Overclocking
About the board/CPU: You might want to read up about the processors performance, especially for single core games. The reason that I did recommend that 920 is that I've seen pretty many reports of people who did speed it up to 3.6-4 GHz for gaming and that all the tests I've read before buying that 975 were pretty much saying that the 9xx series outperformes AMD processors very easily. I've also had some talks with gamers and they all recommended intels 9xx processors.
The speed difference between the 975 at 4*3.33 compared to the Phenom 9500 at 4*2.22 really is enormeous. Thus, if the processor you selected, is not giving much more power than the slight MHz difference to the Phenom suggests, I would expect that you still get a laggy game experience.
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