In the light of your inspiring thought, might I add an interesting book to your list. 'Let Go and Let God' by Albert E Cliffe. As a bacheolor living at the Y.M.C.A. in 1977, I recieved a visit from a very tall woman by the name of Greta Human. She had the smile so beautiful and rosy cheeks and long wavy black hair. She literally tumbled into my room and explained to me that Jesus had shown her to bring me this beautiful book. The geniune simpliciy of the statement of letting go is profound, though I do believe to be fully alive one needs to feel the pain of loss, deeply otherwise it might be clearly admitted that on never really lived with full accountabiliity. When my Dad died, I never was allowed to see him, never told that he had even died until two weeks after the fact. Mourning is natural and shows deep respect for a life lived well. However, I would like to add the Christian Perspective. To die is not an introduction to successive rebirths, and eventually nothing, as with the nature of NIrvana. Death in final. It is the end of this physical life, and one will not be reintroduced to play out another cycle in the wheel. Death is the exit. Death can either be joy or tradgedy. Death can be swallowed up in victory for a believer in the Lord Jesus Christ. Why? Because He died, so that as we identify with Him in death, we are risen with Him into newness of life. In this life yes you can let go, but you will not be able to let go of death, you will only be able to echo with Paul....Oh death where is thy sting O grave where is thy victory, when you have completely surrendered to the Lord Jesus Christ. Then you will most definitely be able to let go. There are resting place along the way, but the Tibetan Book of the Dead is not one of them.