Getting beaten up by ~everyone~ on the playground...
NOOB strategy question...
I've had the game log enough to master the basics. I've restarted at least a dozen times, mainly playing the Advent in a single player, medium size random map. I understand at least the basic nuances of how to leverage the Advent -- I'm spreading culture as fast as I can, while maintaining a decent economy, a military that's ranked #2, and the most aggressive research I can. I've also been lucky to get a few maps that let me grow to 5-6 planets (etc.) with only 3 phase lane access points to protect. And the exact same thing keeps happening: I'll get pounded at one of those access points by huge fleets from multiple enemies, until I lose that space and they come pouring in.
The underlying problem regeards the game's diplomacy & the impossible missions I get. It's fairly early in the game, and I keep getting missions that are patently impossible: destroy civilian structures, for example, for a race that I haven't even located yet, when the only phase lanes to explore would take me through the territory of other races who refuse to sign cease fire agreements, much less planet vision agreements. Even when I manage to cultivate a decent diplomatic relationship early on, these relationships inevitably fold when I can't fulfill missions like this.
This would be a great game if it didn't always end the same way!
Any suggestions to counter this problem? TIA! Cheers...