1. What is the patch-level of your OS? Are you keeping up-to-date?
2. Drivers.....are they all up-to-date?
3. What Direct X version are you running?
4. What is your system hardware? (specs....video, cpu, ram, etc.)
..oh and the title of your thread is tacky and unecessary! There are quite a few of us helping on these forums and being "yelled-at" just seems somewhat insulting; besides which that title cannot help others who may experience a similar issue down the road. 
thanks,
the Monk