ok im at the end of my rope here i cant connect to impluse or sins online i dont know why plz help
A little hard to help with so little info...... short of you giving me your address, paying for my airfare and .....etc... you get the picture? 
If however you post back with:
1. Your system specs (ie. OS, patch-level, etc.)
2. Your internet connection type etc.
3. Third-party anti-malware etc. software installed
That info would certainly help. 
Please make sure your OS is patched up (latest service pack etc.) has fully updated and functioning .NET and IE7 installations (required by Impulse).
post back and we'll help you further........or you can send me that airfare....hehe
the Monk
By the way, the IronClad Online servers are undergoing some maintenance (so it seems by reading these forums) so some patience might be in order?