As for 4v4 and 5v5, none of us have ever been interested in that format in any RTS. There's absolutely no skill required when every player can just specialize and spam one thing because their teammates will cover the rest.
That is utterly absurd. What teams have you been playing on?
In a 4s or 5s, there are acknowledged roles yes, but by virture of the random map placement, this varies considerably to the point that you can't possibly assume any predetermined role for each until positions have been scouted with an eye to race dependant considerations. The ensuing team effort develops from there. There are far too many variables to just say, "...ok, you spam lrms, you spam carriers, and you sb!"
As Nightraider so eloquently put it,
people are stupid
but the problems with this game are more attitude than intelligence. If you can't have fun, why play it? Of course, some people just like to complain, but that's not going to change.
You might as well just unistall.