First off when it comes to rebellion steam is not 3rd party it is 1st party because of steamworks rebellion would not function online without as the old system has been removed and for the record steamworks does a much better job than the old system.
Now on to steam itself WOW why the hate? Steam rocks, for many reasons its comunity system, its store, update, backup, its has offline, (althought I have never understood why someone would use that) tech support base, forums, a very effective security system (if you go to the trouble to understand how it works and use it). All in all it is an amazing system that does all that and reliably.
The big three evil letters DRM that so many people seem to fear don't really bother me under certain conditions.
1. There is a reasonable cost to results ratio.
2. The developers are willing to keep price of affected games down because they are comfortable with the perceived level of protection from said DRM.
3. Last but by no means least. The DRM does not get in the way of my game enjoyment.
Steam by itself accomplishes all three of these on its own, the fact that some of these publishers are sticking or leaving their own awefull forms of DRM in games on top of the steam system is another topic. BTW I am all for going after these companies that do such underhanded bs.