There are 4 people who view this thread
These forums are not designed to accommodate 4 individuals to the detriment of any/all others. If it's to be a 'haven' for 4 people only you can always find twitter or facebook.
I watch a lot of threads...for different reasons....and to be blunt this topic 'may' attract undesirable people.
If and when that happens this thread will be removed.
Simple solution....play nice and you won't hear anything from an Admin.