Noob we've played together several times, and generally you know what you are doing, perhaps your problem is you have a very hard time seeing past whatever immediate problem is facing you or the group.  Patience and determination are the answer and I'm not sure you can get either from anything someone is going to tell you on this forum.

Just a note on number 7: I hope you don't consider me a noob, but during a game a few weeks ago I was facing Howthe and I actually "rage quit" (the game was pretty much hopeless at that point, and I had made a very large tactical mistake that cost me my fleet).  However, throughout the game you felt you needed to micromanage everything I was doing (which is a lot when face to face with Howthe) and constantly were second guessing my moves. 

I don't claim by any stretch to be amazing, but you actually frustrated ME with this to the point of quitting.  So I guess my advice here is, do your best, focus on what you can do and not what you think others should be doing (yes, advice and tactical discussion is critical, but micromanaging someone else's play means you arent playing your own game the way you should be).  Hopefully this helps.

Breaks can certainly help if its a constant problem, and believe me I would rather have you on my team than a LOT of other players.  Quitting prematurely though can really dent that, as well as your in game attitude.  A game should be fun, and MP RTS's like this appeal to us problem solvers who like to pit our wits against others and test our ability to make good decisions under pressure.

Remember, single games are single games, but you are always making a reputation for yourself with how you speak and how you react to others.

I have played with you about 10times or more and about 80% of time , you quit within the first 20mins.

I told my china friends that if you are their opponent, just kill your capital ship and you will quit. Ppl like you are what spoils others from enjoying this game online.

That's pretty harsh.  He just recognized what he's been doing and apologized, you don't need to be a jerk to him.  It's a game, and he isn't responsible for your enjoyment of it.  If you don't want to play with him then don't, insulting isn't helpful.

There is only one person I refuse to play with and that's Jakemac, partly because of his attitude and mostly because he admitted to doing something to cause minidumps in games.

Good man.  In the future, though, don't kodiak rush.  Doesn't work once titans are out.

Reading, try it sometime.

I was sad when I read your post.

You banged yourself hard for no reason...

Other than being a *$^&* rager...

feed games. Sigh

If only the ability to feed was nerfed and team mates didn't feed noobs who use kodiak rushes. 

My dear boy

The day I rage quit against howthe will be the day I stop playing this game and sins has a way of punishing even the biggest fleet in the entire galaxy. Even if wailing and 2 levels of the red button is frowned upon.