I know. What i really want is the most complete possible mod that is out there.
It just depends what you want. For more content, Enhanced 4X, Distant Stars, and Maelstrom are all good, but focus on different things (Mechanics and Diversity/Research/New Races respectively), while all 3 contain some fairly large overhauls with things like new planets. The "total conversion mods" like Sins of a Galactic Empire might have more new content, but many of the other ones are still somewhat incomplete do to their more ambitious goals.