1. i agree, id also like the ability to turn off auto-fleet join. for instance, ill have two large fleets in one system composed of the same number of units (when at full strength) but if im re-inforcing one of the fleets, the replacecment ships end up going to the larger fleet that does not need re-inforing.
i know the devs were selling this as a unique feature, but they said it would join the most appropriate fleet... not the largest fleet
i reckon if frigate/capital factories, when selected, brought up the tactics management window and whatever else, so when you set the settings there (engagement range, auto-fleet join etc) it will apply to all ships being built at that factory.
on a seperate note, currently if you have more than 1 factory in a system, all the ships built will appear in the game as though they came out of the first factory built. its only a visual thing. but sometimes its advantageous for each ship to come out a little distance away from the others. or, alternatively, closer or further from the battle, as appropriate
2. also agree, though it doesnt annoy me as much. =P
again, on a seperate note, id also like the audio cues for notices on incoming enemy forces, when re-inforcements join a battle, etc etc, id like them to be more helpful. atm, it considers a trade ship as re-inforcement, but i have to go running around looking for which of my ships decided to get all altruistic on me. also, when it says there are inbound hostiles, and a scout ship or 2 LF or a few seige frigs rock up, and im all excited and RED ALERT and stuff, then i just get dissapointed. something more intuitive and informative would be awesome