I realize this may sound stupid, and I realize perfectly well that you technically get more firepower per resource spent by using smaller ships, but I still don't get why you'd want to use them. Whenever I make a mixed fleet of just one cap and a variety of smaller ships, I find that the smaller ships get destroyed and I have to constantly spend resources to rebuild them. Obviously I am paying closer attention to my caps, so it is much easier to pull them out without taking any loss, and they regenerate for free.
This naturally leads me to start making more capitol ships and fewer frigates, and before I know it I am attacking with multiple capitol ships, and no frigates at all! Again, since it's much easier to retreat a cap than a small ship (who can keep track of so many?) by fighting this way many battles end with no real losses on my side at all. It just seems so much more reasonable to end a skirmish with all my cap ships at half health, and the enemy fleet with a bunch of ships destroyed.
Add to that the obvious facts that capitol ships get stronger and stronger over time, and that they have great abilities, and it seems tempting to start each game off by scuttling my frigate factory. Am I the only one to have thought this?
More importantly, what is the proper ratio of caps to frigates I should work towards?